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This time of the year always makes me a bit wistful, like something is slipping through my fingers that I want to grasp and hold tightly to. Beach sand. Warm breezes. An incomplete thought. Relationships.
This unsettledness seems to be brought on by two things. One is the crisp morning air. I can look out the window and see the horse and cows lift their faces in the morning coolness, breathing it in. Even they know change is coming.
The second is my hummingbird feeder. In the middle of summer, it is the center of much activity. Once the weather starts to cool, it hangs idle. I leave nectar in it longer than most, because you never know when a lone traveler will need energy for her journey. But sooner or later, all my beautiful jeweled hummers leave for warmer places.
It reminds me of a time in my life about twenty-five years ago. We were living in Birmingham, Alabama, and were very active in the Church there. There was a young man in the Church who was from Florida, but was attending college in Birmingham. He spent a lot of time in our home. Everyone who ever met him, loved him. When it came time for his graduation, and for him to move back home, I was so distraught that I could hardly stand it. I just couldn’t bear the thought of him not being in our day to day lives.
Fast forward a quarter of a century…Our family is now very involved with the Global Missions department of the United Pentecostal Church International, something we could have never foreseen twenty-five years ago. My husband schedules Missionaries to be in Church services all over our state while they are traveling on deputation.
Would you believe that young man from our Birmingham days is now involved in the Associates In Missions program of the United Pentecostal Church?! This means that one day in the future, this man’s family will travel through our state on deputation and my husband is likely to be the one scheduling his services in our Churches. I am looking forward to catching up and enjoying with him the season of life he is in now.
As I’ve grown older and matured a little, I’ve realized that not everyone that God brings into my life is going to be a permanent fixture. We must allow people to follow the path God is leading them down. There are seasons in each of our lives. Often, those seasons overlap, and occasionally diverge.
We must allow people to follow the path God is leading them down. Click To TweetPeople come and go in our lives for many reasons. Schooling, jobs, illness, vacations, military, dreams, passions, travels, bad decisions, good decisions, death and endless other reasons that we often have no control over.
Just remember, life and relationships are a series of changing seasons. Whoever God has placed in your life during this season of time, be a true friend to them. Cherish them. Add value to their lives. Then, when a season of change is in the air, don’t hold on so tightly that you, nor they, can enjoy what is right around the corner.
Life is a series of changing seasons. Click To TweetINVITATION FOR FEEDBACK
- Have you ever been afraid of change?
- Do you or someone you love feel the need to control every aspect of a relationship?
- Have you ever held on so tightly that a relationship was damaged?
- How has God taught you to trust Him through changing seasons?
- Has God ever restored a relationship that you thought was lost?
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Thank you got my the reminder that life is constantly moving and changing. Some seasons are.much harder than others but they all bring growth.
Thanks for reading, Lorie! Yes, we all must keep reminding ourselves, This too shall pass. Blessings.
Thank you for this. Recently the Lord has been showing me some things about myself . The walls I’ve built because of changing seasons that I’ve experienced in ministry. Not getting close to people in anticipation of their departure, not letting completely go of “others” church responsibilities so I can pick it back up when they leave , not loving and serving others 100% in fear of the pain if they walk out of our lives, struggling with the loneliness of having no friends , everything is a “job” and I’ve lost the ability to laugh and just have fun.
I’m grateful the Lord has shown me this about myself and the desire to change.
Thank you for reading and sharing, Laura! Everything that you said, I’ve seen about myself at one time or another. It’s a good, good Father who shows us the areas in our lives we need to be aware of, work on, and think differently about. Blessings for your journey!